KING OF KINGS LUTHERAN CHURCH

13765 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO  63017

Phone:  314-469-2224

Email:  churchoffice@kokstl.org

 

The Messenger

June 2008

 

 

 

“Passing Your Faith on to Your Children!”

 

 

Dear friends,

 

As I am writing this newsletter article, it is the day after Mother’s Day.  We just started our new sermon series called: “Leaving a Godly Legacy.  I keep running across articles that talk about leaving a legacy.  People are giving me newspaper stories about passing our faith on to our children.

 

Allow me to share with you one newspaper article called, Passing Your Faith To Your Children Essential, by Cynthia Fischer.  She started off by saying “All of your life you are told ‘life is too short,’ and ‘children grow up so fast.’”  She goes on to share Ten Commandments for passing on our faith to our children:

1.      It’s your job to pass on your faith to your children.  It’s not the job of the church, they are there to support you.

2.      Don’t assume your child’s faith will be formed in the same way yours was.  You still need a plan.

3.      Enemy number one is our culture.  Our culture is directly opposed to the values held by most faith groups.  Culture is growing more and more hostile to our faith.

4.      You have until your children reach puberty to do most of your faith-based teaching.  Make sure you don’t over-schedule your young one’s lives and neglect this vital time.

5.      If your faith is important to you, when your son or daughter becomes an adult it will matter more to you than anything else about his or her life.  The choice of a college, a profession, or salary will pale in comparison to whether your son or daughter is living out his or her faith.

6.      Be real with your children.  Apologize when you make a mistake.  Be honest about who you are.  It’s not what you say you believe as much as what you do with what you believe that your children are observing and “catching.”

7.      When you pass down your faith to your children, you are setting the model for passing it down to your grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

8.      Leave a record for your children: write letters, write notes.  Your words will live longer than you do.

9.      Pray!  Faith-passing involves God.  It’s all about Him anyway.  And He loves them more than you do, and is at work in their lives.

10.  It’s not over until it’s over.  Don’t give up on your children or your grandchildren.  God doesn’t give up on us either!

 

As I look at this month of June, I see a few more opportunities to share our faith with our loved ones.  1) We will continue the Leaving a Godly Legacy until June 15.  Please join us.  2) Vacation Bible School is Monday June 9th through the 13th, and let us help you teach about our Lord, Jesus Christ.  3) Father’s Day is June 15th.  What better Father’s Day gift can you have than to bring your family with you to church and then take them out to eat and tell them how much you love them?

 

Do you remember God our Father’s words to you?  “How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!  And that is what we are!  …Dear friends, now we are children of God…we know that when He appears, we shall be like Him for we shall see Him as He is.  Everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself, just as He is pure” (1 John 3:1-3).  May God’s legacy, love and holiness shape you, and keep you until the end of time!

 

     God’s presence, peace, and power be yours

     now and forever!

 

                                                              Pastor Doug Chinberg

 

 

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Summer with the King

June 18- August 6

worship: 6:15pm

(no meals or classes)

 

Summer time is highway time.  With the warmer weather and the lengthened days, we often find ourselves longing to travel and visit those we know and love.  Jesus also loves to be with the ones He loves.  He willingly took on human form to come to earth and travel to various places in order to show His love to those He visited.  Feed troughs, carpentry shops, wildernesses and on the water of Galilee, Jesus kept popping up in the oddest places, places where you’d never expect to spot God.  But these were the places that He went in order to show the world how far He would go to touch us.  These were places that He went to show us all how much He loved us.  Whether you will be gone for Sunday services or need a mid-week pick-me-up, join us this summer for Summer with the King worship services as we “Travel With Jesus.”  Communion will be served once a month (June 18, July 9, and August 6).

 

 

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THE PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE

 

JUNE 2008

 

If you ever really want to learn about the operation of your church, just spend some time writing checks to pay the myriad of bills we receive every month - it’s an eye-opener.  Tom periodically corrals me to sign checks, and it never ceases to amaze me how many little things go on behind the scenes to make King of Kings the smooth-running church we all appreciate so much.  Do you know we have three separate electricity bills and three gas bills to pay each month--one each for the main building, the west property and the ministry east annex?  All were once individually owned and still operate off of their own meters and the bills can’t be combined.  Go figure!

 

When you make copies on the machine in the Sunday School office/workroom, the monthly lease on the copier and the paper you’re printing were paid to our suppliers.  Checks go the Synod each month for employee Concordia Plan health insurance and retirement, telephone bills paid so our staff can do their ministry during the day, contractors paid for improvements made to our beautiful campus, communion supplies, and on and on.  Next time you are walking around our campus, I invite all of you to say short prayers of thanks for all of our dedicated staff who help make King of Kings the place we call our church “home.” 

 

While we are thanking those who serve, I ask you to give a personal word of thanks to outgoing officers who will be leaving their chairmanships of various Boards effective July 1.  Your dedicated service to this congregation and our Lord is very much appreciated. 

 

 

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Seniors’ Card & Game Party!

 

Sunday, June 15, at 1:00 p.m. in the Concordia Room.

Bring a snack to share.  Invite a neighbor to join you!

 

 

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Work Day - Saturday, June 7th

 

First, a big thank you to the forty-nine volunteers that made our April work day a success!  A number of tasks were completed despite the wet weather.  Praise the Lord for the wonderful members here at King of Kings who give so generously of their time and talents.

 

A second work day will be held on Saturday, June 7, 8:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m. Lunch will be served.  Help is needed to complete outdoor tasks that were postponed due to rainy weather in April, as well as some general indoor cleaning.  Please plan to come give us a hand with keeping our property looking its best.

 

   - Board of Properties

 

 

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Pastor Mark’s Outreach Comments

 

For the month of June, I’d like to highlight a flourishing ministry here at King of Kings.  I had a chance to speak of it for a moment while introducing Debbie for her MOPS (Mothers of PreSchoolers) discipleship moment on Mother’s Day, but I feel there is more to say.  MOPS is an outreach ministry opportunity that we have here at King of Kings which sometimes goes overlooked.  In May, the King of Kings MOPS completed their 20th year!  Many of you are already aware of MOPS and some of you have been participating in it for years.  This year has been my first experience with MOPS and I have had the privilege of getting to know some of the members and discover what a wonderful “side-door ministry” this is.  A side-door ministry is one in which we, as a congregation, touch people of the community in a way that is not direct evangelism but still brings people into a direct connection with Christ, and this one has been very successful!

 

I’ve seen unchurched people joining our church and other churches through their relationships in MOPS.  I’ve also seen other families coming to ChristCare small groups because of connections made at MOPS.  I have witnessed deep and possibly lifelong friendships starting to be formed and children being introduced to church and Sunday School for the first time…all in the short time that I have been at King of Kings.

 

In our society, some people are trying to redefine marriage and family on their own terms.  Fifty percent of marriages end in divorce and the number of kids who will grow up in multiple step homes has tripled since 1960.  The MOPS organization is trying to support and build up families by reaching out to mothers of young children.  While their children are playing together and interacting with members of our church, moms can come together, listen to speakers, discuss relevant topics, fellowship, and develop relationships.  At our King of Kings MOPS group, these moms get to hear the message of Christ’s love and healing power and they experience it through the loving members of King of Kings who coordinate and facilitate this ministry.

 

This month, we will honor dads and grandpas on Father’s Day, and MOPS doesn’t ignore the dads.  In May, the King of Kings men’s group invited the dads of MOPS to a breakfast and Bible study.  We have big hopes for our congregation touching lives outside of our church through MOPS and our upcoming “POPS” events.  This is one outreach area we all can jump on board and pray for, support, volunteer, and participate in!

 

I hope that you can see the possibilities for our congregation to touch lives in our community and connect people to Jesus Christ through MOPS.  I pray that you will consider being a part of this exciting opportunity to reach young families in our community with the heart of the King.

 

     - Pastor Mark

 

 

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A Little Lunch Music

 

Late Spring and all of Summer is a time to kick back, relax, have some fun, and have a less hectic schedule where normal activities are concerned.  Here also at King of Kings many activities are in summer hiatus now or will be soon.

 

Except, that is, for A Little Lunch Music

 

This weekly time of music and reflection will continue every week, except those weeks during which I will be out of the office on vacation.  Perhaps, with your own schedule a bit less hectic and a bit more flexible, you could begin this marvelous habit of joining the many others who regularly take time to enjoy all types of music for organ or piano.  The themes are varied, the music is memorable, and you will enjoy good company.

 

Make these weeks of summer even more special.  A Little Lunch Music – Thursdays from 12:15–12:45 p.m. here at King of Kings.

 

 

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The ChristCare Corner

 

Whenever we think of what ChristCare stands for, we remember the Biblical verses on which ChristCare is based including:  Matthew 28:18-20: “Go and make disciples of all nations,” and John 13:34-35: “Love one another as I have loved you.”  The ChristCare groups are answering God's call to fulfill these commands and to grow in their love of God and for each other.  Now to the blessings that are happening and have happened here at King of Kings:

  • Blessings of having Pastor Mark complete the week long, intensive ChristCare Equippers’ Training in April
  • Blessings of support for ChristCare Ministry by the congregation and pastors
  • Blessings of those faithful leaders who completed the forty-hour training course for ChristCare leaders
  • Blessings of the members who make ChristCare a priority, even to come twice a month
  • Blessings of the new members at King of Kings who are already in ChristCare groups
  • Blessings of Pastor Mark’s group who made New Move-in Calls in April, another group who made calls in May, and a third group who will make calls in November
  • Blessings of King of Kings members who are considering taking the training course for ChristCare leaders starting August 7
  • Blessings of those persons who are praying for the success of ChristCare
  • Blessings of the Holy Spirit working in areas of Biblical Equipping
  • Blessings of the groups in deciding what missional service the group will do
  • Blessings of the leaders and members of ChristCare who pray for each other
  • Blessings of the leaders who give of their time in preparation for ChristCare and then, also, attend SEA meetings

 

“As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, so is my word that goes out from my mouth:  It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.”  Isaiah 55:10-11

May God continue to bless the members and leaders of ChristCare

 

    - ChristCare Small Group Ministry Team

 

 

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Deadlines & Discipline & Giving

 

There are times when you may be faced with deadlines to accomplish a project or task.  Discipline is required to meet deadlines.  Deadlines are not necessarily a time for creative thinking, but a time to get down to the business at hand.  Inspiration does generally surface under the demands of deadlines.

 

As I write this message to you, I am under a deadline to have an article to Helene by tomorrow morning at 9:00 a.m.  I mentioned to my wife that I was not inspired to write the article that needed to be written because there is an important message I wanted to be more creative in writing about.  My wife said to write about how I wasn’t inspired.  I reflected and then it hit me…that is really the message I need to write.  There are times when we each may feel uninspired.  These are times that take raw discipline...simply doing what we know is needed to be done.

 

You see, as the year rolls into our second quarter, it is easy to loose some of the inspiration and discipline required to continue our commitment to our financial support for the ministries at KOK.  There are times when we have other deadlines at work, at home, with personal financial obligations, and bills to pay.  It takes discipline to maintain a steadfastness in weekly or monthly giving to church.  We are told in the Bible that discipline can be painful, yet it yields a harvest:  No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful.  Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.  Hebrew 12:11

 

As we are bound together to encourage one another in our work in ministries at KOK, we must also be mindful of the financial obligations and deadlines that KOK needs to meet in order to continue the ministries we want to accomplish in 2008.  I want to encourage each of you to give prayerful consideration of disciplined giving as we enter the summer months.  These are months when vacations and travel may take us away from church, yet our ministries continue on each day of the year.  Thank you for your continued financial support of our ministries and disciplined giving so that later on a harvest will be gathered.

 

 

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Campbell’s Soup Labels

and

“Box Tops for Education”

 

Thanks to your generosity, Bethesda Lutheran Services writes us that we have helped them redeem almost 300,000 labels this past year.

 

Because of the time you take to tear off the labels and “Box Tops for Education” coupons, they are able to provide their classrooms, workshops and living areas with quality services to the developmentally disabled individuals to whom they minister.

 

Our mailings to them in 2007-2008 have definitely been larger than 2006-2007, so we believe more of you are conscious of this service that King of Kings can provide.

 

Drop your labels and coupons in the wooden box on the kitchen counter in Strickert Hall, or in the “soup can” on the shelf in the Sunday School/Workroom in the education wing.  Thanks for all your donations.

 

 

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Gals’ Movie Night

June 9 - 5:30 p.m., in the youth room

 

Gals, you are invited to come watch a movie with your KOK gal friends.  This month, the movie is an adventure/comedy entitled: “Secondhand Lion.”  It’s a coming-of-age story about a shy, young boy sent by his irresponsible mother to spend the summer with his wealthy, eccentric uncles in Texas.  It stars Michael Caine, Robert Devall and Haley Joel Osment.  Come, bring a friend, a snack to share, money for pizza and your own beverage.  Questions, call the church office.

 

 

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Help us Recycle!

 

Paper -  a paper recycling bin is in our parking lot for newspapers, magazines, catalogs, mail, copy paper, posters and envelopes.  Please No phone books, plastic, metal or glass items.  We also recycle Inkjet Cartridges and Cell Phones (not cell phone accessories).  Please bring them to the church office or place them in the plastic recycling cart in Strickert Hall.  Questions, talk with the church office.

 

 

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To the Ends of the Earth

 

This year has brought so many new experiences and blessings, this being the most stretching for me.  I was asked to join a member of our congregation (Christ the Shepherd Lutheran Church, Alpharetta, GA) on a mission trip to India.  After prayerful consideration, I joined one other team member and traveled across the ocean to Gandepalli, India.  It was an amazing week of ministry in another culture, another country, and another language, but amazingly, the same God!

 

I learned so much about the Christian plight in India.  According to our hosts, only 1% of college students can be Christians and only 1% of government employees can be Christians.  All of this despite Christians representing   3-4% of the population, according to the government census.

 

We spent the week teaching rural pastors with very little education, some Biblical principles of management and leadership.  What I found so interesting was that things that seem “common sense” to me were revolutionary to these pastors: for example, prioritization and helping another out, despite caste.  This lead me to question, what things do they see as “common sense” that would be revolutionary to me and my culture?  One of the major things I felt we, as Americans, would find revolutionary was the joy with which the children were helpful and obedient to their elders, not out of fear, but out of respect.

 

We also had the opportunity to preach at four churches on Sunday.  It was challenging to preach with a translator, but it was awesome to see how God transcends cultural and language barriers.  One of the highlights was being able to pray for people and to know that even though that person may not have understood the words of my mouth, the words of my heart were heard loud and clear.  God is amazing!

 

Our host family in Gandepalli had a little girl.  Seeing her daily made me miss my little boy (Carter) back home.  Perhaps it is being a father, but probably more just being human that made my heart ache for the orphans in India.  The family we stayed with cares for twenty-one orphans.  This group is comprised of both parentless children and children whose families simply cannot afford to care for them.  They all live together in a small room and sleep on a concrete floor without bedding.  Each child has a suitcase to hold all their possessions.  Despite trying circumstances, these are some of the most joyful people I have ever seen.

 

I will never be able to read Scripture the same after having seen the beggars in the streets and Hindus offering prayers to idols before my very eyes.  It is easy to forgot that this is happening in the world when we think about the culture in which we live.  The Scriptures became very real to me as I walked the streets of India and literally saw these realities unfolding.

 

All in all, it was an incredible journey for me.

NOTE:  Vicar Ted’s entire letter is posted on a Strickert Hall bulletin board.

 

 

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Youth News

 

SR. High Youth

All youth who will be in grades 9-12 next school year and all 2008 high school graduates are invited to attend the Missouri District Senior High Youth Gathering, June 27-29 at Missouri State University in Springfield, MO.  You should have received information on the Gathering in early May in Sunday morning Bible class.  The cost of the Gathering is $129 per person, and it includes lodging and four meals.  The registration forms are due no later than Sunday, June 1.  We hope to get a good size group to represent our King of Kings Youth and it is sure to be a really fun and uplifting time.  Questions contact the church office.

 

JR. High Youth

Do you putt-putt?  Calling all Jr. High youth (grades 6-8), please join us on Friday, June 6, when we will head to a local miniature golf course for a round of putt-putt golf.  Meet at church at 6:30 p.m.  The cost is yet to be determined.  Please RSVP by June 1st   (churchoffice@kokstl.org or 314-368-6443).

 

 

 

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VBS Snacks

 

Does your job prevent you from helping at our Vacation Bible School?  Well, you can help by providing snacks.  Please place your donations in the church kitchen and mark them: “VBS.”  Questions, contact the church office.

 

  individually wrapped crackers             English muffins

  mozzarella cheese                                           blue food coloring

  pepperoni pieces                                            Cool Whip

  honey (in squeeze bottles)                               pizza sauce

  brownie mixes                                                Teddy Grahams

  refrigerator biscuits                                         stick margarine

  large marshmallows                                         Cheez Its

  snack-sized Ziploc bags                                  animal crackers

  fresh fruit                                                        crackers

  pudding (vanilla, chocolate and butterscotch)

 

 

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VBS: Cosmic City Wish List

 

   heavy duty aluminum foil                                silver duct tape

  40 noisemakers (party type)                            silver spray paint

  space related posters                                      space blankets

  bags of dried beans                                         megaphone

  yogurt cups (empty)                                        disco ball

  director’s chair                                               director’s hat

  shiny silver, flexible dryer vent             quilt batting

  pipe insulation (foam type tubing, slit on one side)

  cardboard boxes (all size, from cereal size boxes to large

    paper boxes)

 

 

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Christian Family Day at Six Flags

Saturday, August 9, 2008

 

Plan now to join us at Christian Family Day at Six Flags.  This is an open invitation for the whole congregation to enjoy some fun and Christian fellowship and, also, a great concert by the Newsboys!  More information will be available in the coming weeks.  Watch for a sign-up sheet in the lobby.  Contact the church office with your questions.